Archive for June 7th, 2012

Changing Her Paradigm . . .

June 7, 2012

My granddaughter is out of school for the summer.  She is enjoying her first couple of days without a schedule.  She is exhausted from the rush of activity and homework that seemed to get piled on at the bitter end.  She is sleeping in, chilling out, and generally beginning to unwind.

It won’t last.  She will become bored, but the rule in my house is that if boredom is expressed verbally, the bored person gets handed the broom!

She’s a teenager.  She’s a pretty good kid, but she often tiptoes near the precipice of negativity.  I have a project in mind to help her with that.

Beginning next week, she must take one photo per day during her summer break.  It must be a photo of something happy, funny, beautiful, or in some way uplifting and positive.

Each day, she will put that photo into a PowerPoint slide show and then have something happy to show herself at the end of summer.

Last night, I told her about her assignment.  She doesn’t sit on my knee anymore.  She sits on the floor in front of my rocking chair when we have serious conversations.  She looks up at me with intensity, but I find the arrangement endearing and intimate.  She began to laugh instantly when she heard my directions.

I read her mind and then added: “Even if you take a photo of your smiling face everyday, it will meet my requirements.”

GN continued to laugh.  “Gram!  That would be so awesome to have a PowerPoint slide show of my laughing face!”

She has begun her paradigm shift already . . . even without clicking the shutter.

We’ll see how she feels about the geometry project she will begin the same day as the photo project . . .  ;-)   Grammy Summer School will soon be in session.

Not the Hydrangeas . . . Again!!!!

June 7, 2012

It seems that I will not be having any snowball hydrangea flowers this year.  Two years ago, they were cut down in their prime by the lawn care crew.  That’s not what happened this year . . .

I like to get up early and head out to the garden at the crack of dawn.  It’s a garden in a loose sense of the word.  I live in a townhouse and there is limited space for planting as well as guidelines for planting.  I’ve managed to put in a few lovely flowering shrubs and I use pots for some vegetables and herbs.  Nevertheless, I would like to enjoy what I’ve put in when the time is right.

I head outside with my tools or a bag in which to put weeds when I pull them.

When I went out to pull weeds recently, I was greeted with this situation:

All those stems had little blossoms on them: forming, flowering, growing.  They are all gone!  Again!  They were eaten alive!  It was the band of lawn ornaments I spoke of here:  http://goodnightgram.wordpress.com/2012/04/16/lawn-ornaments/   They didn’t even knock on my door or tell me they were hungry.

I know there are sprays to deter hydrangea murders like this from happening, but I’ve lived in this townhouse for 12 years and this is the first time they have made a feast on my flowers.  I can’t even give them a lecture . . . like I did the lawn care crew chief.

 

 

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